Mar 30, 2008

There's a first for everything


These are some of my favorite/most memorable firsts.
First attempted crockpot meal.



First time packing up everything we own and driving it 1654 miles across the country.



First pumpkin we carved together (it's an owl face and you would be able to tell that if you saw it glowing with a candle inside... well at least I think you could tell).


First Christmas tree
Also worth noting: First time the Christmas tree was knocked over on Christmas Day.

First time spelling Mississippi at the Mississippi River.


First time we kissed (well that's what our dads thought, at least).


First frenchbraid... maybe the last, based on the quality.

Mar 29, 2008

Canyonlands or Bust!

Our first non-Honeymoon vacation!
note: click on the pictures to get a better view.

Our caravan: Cousins: Kyle and Todd (who drove with us...the coolest car, of course), Kendall, Scott (and his friend Raul). Friends: Charlie (a friend from freshman year and former roommate), his sister Sophie and her husband Morgan.

Logistics: The trip took about 4 hours. We left on Friday and got to camp after dark. Heather and I set up our humble little tent for the first time (Charlie's wedding gift to us). It was dwarfed by Kyle's 8-man portable castle, but we liked it. Actually, because it's only 6 feet long, and I'm 5'11", I actually was a bit crammed, and I only got 1.5 hours of sleep that night.

First night: After a night of s'mores, guitar songs, and otherwise messing around late into the chilly desert night, we went to bed. The next morning, we broke camp and headed out.

First hike: The Mesa Arch
It only took about 15 minutes to hike to the arch from the trailhead, but when we got there, it was astounding. As you come around the corner, you see the arch. It looks cool...it looks like it belongs on a Utah license plate or something, but it's not that astounding. But as you come up the hill closer to it, you are able to see under the arch, and you get the following fantastic view:


Second Hike: Grand View
The Grand View actually wasn't as cool as the view from under the Mesa Arch, but it was a lot of fun to hike it. There are so many canyons there! (Maybe that's why they call the park "Canyonlands"...). We saw a lot of cool vistas, and found some fun rocks. Below-left is a shot of Kyle and Charlie exercising their wall-climbing skills; below-right is a rock that closely resembles Todd's schnozz (nose).










3rd Hike: Whale Rock
The final hike was a rock called Whale Rock. The most noteworthy item from the hike was that we found the Iron Rod from Lehi's vision of the Tree of Life (from the Book of Mormon). Of course, we had to re-enact the scene.
After that, we packed up, got lost for an hour, and went home.

For more pictures: please check out the full album. Click here for the full album.

Mar 27, 2008

Cool powerpoint tricks

I went to a BYU Graduate Student Society workshop today and learned some cool tricks for powerpoint presentations:

To go to a specific slide in your presentation without scrolling through slides or pressing Esc, press 5 and enter (for slide 5). You'll have to print off your slides so you know what numbers the slides are, obviously. It looks very professional.

To make the screen all black, press B. To make the screen go white, press W. This works well if you've given sufficient time for the audience to read your slide and you just want them to listen to you for a minute.

Mar 20, 2008

8 months

Today we have been married for 8 months! We dated for 9 months before getting married, so it won't be long before our marriage time exceeds our dating time. Here are some pictures that show the progression of our 17 months (dating+marriage) together!

Mar 16, 2008

Peace, Heroes, Religion, and Conflict

We watched the movie Amazing Grace last night (Trailer). It is the story of William Wilberforce, the member of Britain's Parliament who headed the movement to abolish the British slave trade.

If you haven't seen the movie, then you must. I think it's a very important film, and a very important story. In any case though, at the end of the movie, after the slave trade has been abolished, one of the members of Parliament says:
When people speak of great men, they think of men like Napoleon--men of violence. Rarely do they think of peaceful men. But contrast the reception they will receive when they return home from their battles. Napoleon will arrive in pomp and in power. The man has achieved the very summit of earthly ambition. Yet his dreams will be haunted by the oppressions of war.

William Wilburforce, however, will return to his family, lay his head on his pillow, and remember the slave trade is no more.
We often focus on the conquerors, the fighters, the defenders. Our heroes are Frodo Baggins, Spiderman, Rocky, Harry Potter, and the armies that defend freedom and human life. But what about the unsung heroes, like William Wilberforce, who helped abolish one of the vilest endeavors that human beings have undertaken. Men of peace, like Wilburforce, deserve equal, if not greater, commendation and respect for their heroic efforts.

Switching gears slightly--When I lived in Sweden, I often encountered individuals that claimed that many, if not all, of the worlds problems find their origin in religious belief. I couldn't say much--think of the Crusades, the fundamentalist Jihad, Hitler, and so forth. Much of our dirty, nasty human history has been bathed in blood, supposedly at the whim of belief in God.

Watching Amazing Grace, however, I realized that this is not entirely true. Wilberforce was driven by the desire to serve the God that he worshiped. He was influenced greatly by his friend John Newton, a man who abandoned the slave trade because of his religious inclinations (and who eventually wrote the hymn "Amazing Grace").

Economics, capitalism, philosophy, biology, prejudice--these were the ideas which condoned the slave trade (and religion was twisted to justify it). While I have no doubt that non-religious individuals contributed greatly to Britain's abolishment of slave trade, the man credited with the victory was not only a person who believes in God, but a person who did what he did because he believes in God. His actions were caused by his spirituality, not merely correlated with it.

This is not intended as a claim that religion is not associated with evil, terror, oppression, and death (because it is). However, I am claiming that religion has also inspired many great individuals to rise above the theories and social trends of their time to perform great things.

I think it inspiring that an individual's personal sense of spirituality can motivate them to do great things. Many view theists as weak, dependent, strange, illogical, etc., but I think that is a poor stereotype. I think that, as with anything, religion can be used to justify, discriminate, and bring about horrible things, it can also inspire, motivate, and effect great change.

Mar 12, 2008

HFE (Huge Family Evening)

Sunday marked the largest official Family Home Evening gathering of the Provo Hutchings clan. Here is a list of attendants:

Carla Hutchings (Haskin) Family:
Stephen & Heather, Todd, Katie, & Brady (honorary member, present via teleconference). Kent Hutchings Family: John and Cara, Chad, Kelby, Amber-Rose, & Mikkelle. Byron Hutchings Family:Kevin, Amanda, Abby, Mariah,Marc, Chelle, Kendall, Lindsay (honorary member), & Scotticus. Ross Hutchings Family: Kyle.

And, of course, our favorites: Grandpa Bay and Grandpa Jean.

So it was quite a full house.



Kyle
was in charge, and he was able to procure an all-star lineup:




Todd
gave a fantastic lesson on the 3 purposes of the Church. We made a special effort to focus on Elder Ballard's challenge to use "the New Media" to promote good principles to the world and participating in uplifting conversations (follow this link: Ballard's BYU-Hawaii Address). We also talked a lot about Indexing, which is an easy way to get involved in genealogy (see www.familysearchindexing.org).

Katie shared her amazing talents: Talking on the phone to her Minnesota boyfriend for hours at a time. To demonstrate, she called Brady and allowed us to interrogate him. See video below (sorry, our camera's zooming is all messed up).
Grandpa inspired us by reading a letter from a political advocacy group that was written to Janet. After thoroughly confusing us, he discussed the importance of getting involved in issues (such as those mentioned in the letter), and that we can make a difference.

Kendall and Lindsay led us in a rousing game of Categories. I won't explain it here. I'll just say that Amber-Rose won, Marc cruelly confused everybody, Kyle and Todd formed a secret combination, and Grandpa cheated (he was taking notes)

John and Cara were not in charge of dessert, but they were still able to burn some cookies pretty badly by leaving them in the oven for 2 hours.

Kelby and Amber-Rose were in charge of dessert, and they provided some fabulous sugar cookies with green frosting...and a cute baby!

So that was the evening!

Mar 8, 2008

Game Night


I think it's fitting that our first official blog post be about something that we did that was very fun for both of us. For our Friday night date, Stephen arranged what he likes to call the "Haskin Family Game Tournament 2008." He created a computer program on his old high-school graphing calculator (perhaps high-school algebra is actually useful for something...) that showed the games that we were going to play, as well as what order we would play them in (this was randomly determined by the calculator...see video below).
The awards for the tournament were to be as follows:
First Game:
The winner of the first game got to pick the dessert for the evening.
Second Game:
The loser of the second game would have to make it.
Third Game:
The loser of the third game would have to clean it up.


The first game was Speed Monopoly (Monopoly using the new Speed Dice, which makes the game go faster and easier). Although Heather played hard and strong, and her entrepreneurial skills were pushed to their limit, Stephen's acquisition of Park Place early in the game led to her ultimate demise (two turns in a row of a $1200 fine is hard for anybody to take...). At the end of the game, Stephen had 10 hotels plus a ton of money and Heather had $1.

Then we went to Arctic Circle (the first time eating out in about 1.5 months...let's face it: we're poor!). The burgers and shakes were fantastic...a good way to celebrate a victory (or mourn a loss...however you want to look at it).

Next was Quick Scrabble. It's actually a little easier to come up with good words if you have 9 tiles instead of 7. Some examples of words: jade (twice using the same j), goiter, fauna, qat (it's a real word!), & navel. Eventually, Heather pulled ahead at the last moment, winning by a 4-point margin (237 to 233). You try winning with a set of letters like the picture at the right.

Unfortunately, because we are lame married people, we were starting to get really tired at this point (10:30). So we decided to call it quits.

Because I (Stephen) was the loser of the 2nd game, I did the dishes on Saturday morning. Unfortunately, we never got to play Nitro Kart (a really lame racing game for Playstation 2).

Thus ended the Haskin Family Game Tournament 2008.